Lori Rubenstein, Relationship Coach

Lori S. Rubenstein, JD, CPC
Life-After-Divorce Coach

Ready for the BEST Relationship of your life?

What I do

OK, let's face it, if your life was picture perfect and you were exactly where you wanted to be, would you be searching the internet seeking answers? Of course NOT! Well, you came to the right place! Keep reading.

My Mission

Transcending Divorce, both the book and the website, are committed to bringing you quality advice and to assist you in exploring all your options during this moment in your life. My belief is that divorce can be a gift; it depends on your outlook, and I am committed to bringing you the tools and support needed to help you discover your special gift.

As your Divorce Coach, I will not only coach you on legal issues, but will be your guide for GROWING emotionally and spiritually through this process. I will help you see the gifts of the marriage, view the possibilities of the future, and live healthily in the present. My coaching philosophy is that while I am there 100% for you, I will help you to see that truly, all answers are within. I hold my clients as whole, healthy, creative and resourceful and I am ready to take the leap into the future with you.

Relationship Coaching

Love is in the air... well, sometimes it's love, sometimes it's lust, and sometimes it's all about frustration. At other times it's all about hope and dreams. Whatever your relationship needs and goals are, Lori can help you find and enjoy healthy, harmonious, peaceful partnerships.

Lori's life is representative of her motto, "Life is short, now is the time!" Why wait to be happy someday? Relationships can make or break your inner peace and happiness. By stepping up, looking at your own issues, and getting clear about what you truly want in a relationship, you too can start really enjoying the thrill of a loving, fun, passionate partnership!

Professional

  • Member, Relationship Coach Institute 2006-Present
  • Coaching - Academy for Coach Training Graduate 3/02
  • Personal Growth - Graduate of Anthony Robbins Mastery University and Leadership Course - 2001-2004
  • PAX - Understanding Men - 2007
  • Confluence Northwest Mediation Certificate 1994
  • Antioch School of Law - JD 1985
  • U. of Nevada, Reno - BA Human Services 1982
  • Domestic Violence Legal Advocate 2006-present
  • Private Divorce Practice - Roseburg OR 1995-2005
  • Regional Director Oregon Legal Services 1990-1995
  • Staff Attorney Central PA Legal Services 1987-1990
  • Restorative Justice Volunteer 2005 to present
  • Hospice Volunteer in 2006
  • Started a Community-Wide Teen Violence Task Force 2007

  • Author of 3 books, Best Seller - Wake Up...Live the Life You Love, Conscious Relationships, and Transcending Divorce: A Guide for Personal Growth and Transformation


  • Awards: Trailblazer: Entrepreneurial Excellence Award presented by National Association of Women Business Owners 2007; Young Career Woman by Oregon Business and Professional Women's Association.


  • Boards: Family Law Section of Oregon State Bar; Family Development Center Advisory Board; Local Professional Responsibility Committee; Battered Persons Advocacy Advisory Board; and many others over the years.

Personal

I have transcended many times in my own life. I am currently a Personal Life Coach, Mediator, and successful Divorce Attorney. I teach classes for Divorce and Custody as well as Life Makeover Classes. As a Divorce Attorney, I have worked with over a thousand clients to help them deal with fearful transitions in their lives. As a mediator, I help people find creative solutions and gain dignity by resolving their own conflict. I am told that I am an amazing "idea person". As a coach, I love helping people to transcend their current situation and find joy and passion in their lives once again.

My experience is both professional and personal. As a mother of two children, I practice walking my talk. As a child of divorce, and also daily with my divorce clients, I know and see the effects of continuing the parental fight around children. It has serious ramifications on the children's self-esteem. As a divorced and remarried parent, I continue to be reminded of how my own choices affect my children.

How Can Coaching With Lori Serve You?

In a safe, supportive environment, by phone or in person:

  • Discover your life purpose
  • Gain clarity and insight while going through a major life transition such as divorce, loss or change of a job, an illness, finding a new relationship or the loss of loved one
  • Support you and hold you accountable
  • Create new, meaningful relationships
  • Gain greater satisfaction in all areas of your life
  • Live your life from the inside out. Start defining yourself by who you are, not by what you do or have
  • Have healthy loving relationships
  • Live a financially responsible and sustainable life style
  • Love what you do and do what you love
  • Laugh and play more

Client Comments

Transcending Divorce Class:

"This class helped me so much at a time I knew no one going through a divorce. I felt so alone. It was literally a gift from God that I found it and said Yes! I never thought I would make such progress in 8 weeks and my thoughts and feelings have changed to gratitude and forgiveness. It really is a miracle and Lori made it really enjoyable. Lori was excellent coach and leader, always supportive and encouraging us through the process and accepting and non-judgmental. I like sharing with other women going through same thing, knowing we were doing something good for ourselves together. I loved that I could do this from my own home and it didn't cost a fortune. I loved having the great book to follow." -- Joan

Relationship Coaching

"We think everyone considering marriage or entering into a committed relationship should have this counseling. We are now engaged, but we might have missed out on the best relationship in our lives... allowing our mistrust, pride, self protection, and baggage from previous relationships to get in our way... but Lori cut through our defenses to open a door for us to walk through to a new understanding of each other and ourselves." -- Judy and John

Life Makeover Class

"It is my great pleasure to recommend Lori Rubenstein as a personal life coach and motivator. I first met Lori three years ago when I enrolled in one of her classes through our local community college. That class was a lifeline to me at a time when I needed help getting motivated and gaining perspective on what I wanted my goals to be. Lori's positive attitude and objective opinions not only helped me, but also the other members of that class. Under her guidance, we shared our dreams and created plans for our futures, while forging new friendships that lasted beyond the term of the class."-- Debbie

Other areas of coaching expertise

If you want to design a personal retreat, I can come to you or you can come to the beautiful red rocks of Sedona.

I conduct yearly women's retreats in Oregon and Arizona.

Please review my web-sites for more information about personal coaching and teleclasses. I teach Transcending Divorce classes, Playing it Big classes, and monthly workshops, most are about relationship issues and the monthly teleclass workshops are only $25!

Contact Info

Websites- www.transcendingdivorce.com www.daretotranscend.com

Mailing address- PO Box 964, Clarkdale, AZ 86324

Telephone- 928-634-0252

Invitation

Check out my classes and retreats. Personal Coaching is easy to do from the comfort of your own home. Coaching gives you the support you need and Lori brings with her a light-heartedness plus years of expertise in the area of relationships!